Sunday, April 12, 2009

faint annoyance.

That same close fren, has told me more stuff that made me do some deeper thinking.

"If you love and care about the person, you would be motivated to want to go correct that person's faults."

"You (myself, Alex) are generally good natured, but there are some stuff you cannot tolerate, and stand strong on what you think is right or wrong."

I seem to be on a rolling streak, getting pissed at a few people close to me over this weekend.

Close friends, they are supposed to be there for you, wake you up when you are falling into a pit, say things with frankness that may not be nice but necessary. But as close friends, would it be a special privilege or being allowed to be insensitive, or just plain taking advantage of, or that one will always drop everything just for the other?

I have been thinking of what constitutes as a best friend. Would it be the same as being in a relationship with the opposite sex? For what I feel, it would be some sort like being in a relationship, minus the physical intimacy, that anything the friend says or does would invariably affect the other person.

But the problem is, is whether they are able to think it the same way?

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